Let me just start by saying that for me, “this” (meaning clean eating and training) has really become a lifestyle. When I made the decision to compete, going into it I knew that I wanted to do more than one show, and really wanted to put 110% into this. It’s more than just a hobby to me, especially now that I’m seeing the payoffs both physically and mentally. Every day gets me more and more excited to train hard, eat all of my meals, share my knowledge and passion for this with others, and live another day in a healthy, happy body both physically and mentally. Those of you that know me personally know that I don’t half ass anything, and when I put my mind to something, I really go full throttle. If anything, I’ve learned that my over-achiever, type-A, uber competitive personality has served me well! When you compete in this sport, you realize that prep and conditioning your physique to become “show ready” requires tons of time, work, and effort. Plus, you learn the best part about this sport —the longer you do it, the better your physique gets and the better you become as a competitor. Some people do this for only one show though, and that’s okay too!
A “contest prep” is usually about a 12-week strict program with special nutritional and dietary macros guidelines (protein, fats, and carbs, remember?) and workouts designed by a coach (although some people do this alone—more on that later) to get one’s body stage ready. Mine started right after New Year’s, 12 weeks out from my show. At first, my training and nutrition were very similar to my “off season”, cheat meals included, but I knew it wouldn’t always be that way! From the beginning, I was concerned about my legs and lower body not being up to par with my upper body (arms, shoulders, and back) but I knew that if I “followed the plan” as prescribed by my coach, I should be A-OK come March 28th.
My mantra for this entire process, and quite frankly it can be applied to health and fitness in general, has been “One day, one meal, one workout at a time”. It’s so true—I quickly learned that if I just focused on my next meal (every three hours!), or that day’s workout, the less I would be concerned with pre-show jitters, or focused on what I couldn’t eat or the things that I was “missing out on”.. That being said, if you are even CONSIDERING competing, I would encourage you to give it A LOT of thought and research everything before deciding whether or not it is for you. This is not for the faint of heart. Some people do their own prep, and I can’t even IMAGINE, especially as a first-timer, how one would know in the slightest what the hell they were doing! Having a coach to guide you, support you, and mentor you, is CRUCIAL. I’m so thankful for mine—I’ve probably asked a million questions since I started working with him, and he’s answered every single one with patience, encouragement, and knowledge.
I was fortunate too, that I have a whole team of Competitors that train with my coach (a lot of ladies, too!) that I could lean on, cheer for, and bond with. That has been so great! Having Shane here with me though, has been the biggest part. Honestly, I probably couldn’t have done this without him. He has been my rock through this, encouraging me every step of the way, from eating meals with me out of Tupperware in parking lots (I do that a lot!), meal-prepping, high-fiving me in the gym, and taking all of my progress pics, I could not be more blessed to have him by my side. We really are swole mates!
I’ve also been very open with my journey on social media, which for me, has just opened the doors for me to motivate and inspire others, which in turn motivates and inspires me to keep going. Again, it’s not all rainbows and butterflies. Yes, the abs and guns are awesome, and yes, I got to have a blast getting all dolled up this weekend for a photo shoot to show off my hot new body, but I’ve also been absolutely busting my ASS in the gym, and have essentially sworn off all restaurants and alcohol for the past three months. Sometimes I forget the busting the ass part! I knew exactly what I was getting into before I signed up for this because I did lots of research before committing, just as you should. Your life becomes a never-ending cycle of Train. Eat. Work. Eat. Train. Eat. Sleep. Repeat. It’s also very expensive and time consuming—also something I knew before I started this journey. I am also extremely fortunate that I don’t have a crazy work schedule or stressful job to deal with, or kids that needed time and attention. I am able to work my 40 hours a week, I have a relatively drama free life, and I can really focus on my diet and training. My efforts have really paid off.
If you’re the type of person that trains hard and eats six times a day already, then your day to day won’t change much if you decide to compete. What you will learn though, is how much this is a mental and emotional transformation just as much as it is physical. You can have a coach write down to the T what to eat and drink, how much and when, what to train, how to train, and when to train, but the 24 hours a day 7 days a week of this thing is all you. No one’s looking over your shoulder to make sure you really only had 32g of peanut butter, and you must have the self-control necessary to stay on plan, no matter how much Chick-Fil-A and Chipotle are begging you to pay them a visit. You have to take it one day, one meal, one workout at a time. In the beginning, the cravings were much harder to resist than they are now. As much as I’ve talked about what I’m going to eat after the show, I really don’t want to sabotage all of the work that I’ve done and the sacrifices that I’ve already made, so I already know I’ll be right back on plan after a couple of days. When I can drink again, though, I’m pretty sure my tolerance will be zero all over again! Red wine and I are planning an awesome reunion. I do NOT miss the hangovers!
Carb depletion and fasted cardio will make your brain feel very fuzzy and strange. I speak from experience on this one! I’ve been working out twice a day for the last 8 weeks, as most competitors do for most of their prep. I have made lots of sacrifices, don’t see my friends as often as I used to, and have closed down the gym more nights than I can count. I’ve gotten up to get my fasted cardio in (I have NEVER missed a session, including a post-lifting cardio session, even if it meant tabatas in my living room at 11:30pm) regardless of the weather— I have gone to the gym in snow, sleet, pouring rain, ice, and freezing temperatures. A workout was never skipped, a rep never missed. I’ve eaten all of my meals, many of which were cold and boring, and not what I wanted to be eating. I didn’t have a cheat when it wasn’t allowed, and have followed my plan down to the last letter. I’ve worked too damn hard to not crush it this last full week of training, since the week before the show or “Peak Week” as we call it, is essentially just light workouts and a science-project of water and carb loading, and dehydration. As far as the workouts go, only you know when you’ve given it your all. If you want to succeed, you really have to push through that last burning rep and leave the gym feeling like you just kicked your workout’s ass. Every damn day, good or bad. I absolutely love that feeling. There really is nothing else like it.
Honestly though, I wouldn’t change a thing. I’m not sharing this with you to brag or to get you to pat me on the back, but instead I am reflecting on what I’ve accomplished these last three months, and hoping that my journey will inspire you. Even on my worst day, which included a melt-down in LA Fitness where I literally cried and F-bombed my way through a workout in a sheer state of exhaustion, and drinking sparkling water at my FAVORITE cocktail bar, I have thoroughly enjoyed myself these last 10 weeks. These last 10 weeks I have perfected my 100 Pandora Stations with the hours I have spent in the gym, and never missed a 1pm Saturday posing class with my coach, and have done more laundry loads full of workout clothes than I care to admit. I have pushed myself, motivated myself, and challenged myself in ways that I never thought possible and that means more to me than a trophy or medal ever will. The discipline and pride that I have built are stronger than any muscle will ever be. I cannot thank you all enough for all of your encouragement and support every step of the way. Every Facebook or Instagram Like, text, hug, Facebook post and message that my friends have given me, have helped carry me through this process. I can’t wait to make y’all proud when I hit the stage at the Phil, and then do it all again for my next show!
Till next time!
-Mere