Monthly Archives: February 2016

The Secret is in the Routine

Hi guys!  I cannot believe I’m already halfway through this Prep!  Between working full-time, training, eating, and life, it’s been a while since I’ve updated all of you!  We posted an older entry as well, but hopefully now that things have settled down a bit I can get back in the habit of updating the blog more frequently!

The secret is definitely in the routine.  I love the structure and discipline that comes with Prep.  There is so much dedication, focus, and intention around the routine.  I still focus on taking things one day, one meal, one workout at a time.  I give each one 110% and move through each one each day, and the days slowly turn into weeks, and the results are slowly coming.  It’s such an amazing process, but the secret is definitely found in CONSISTENCY in the routine.

Everyone loves a locker room selfie!
Everyone loves a locker room selfie!

Don’t get me wrong, things are still really different this time!!!  So far so good, but man, this time just feels a lot more I guess calm??  It’s really weird.  First off– I’m slowly seeing changes week by week, but the scale has barely moved!  Coach says not to worry though, that I’m right on pace!  ….I’ll take it!  My diet hasn’t changed all that much from offseason, so the biggest difference I’ve noticed with this prep compared to last year, is that I’m not craving things nearly as much.  Honestly, it seems easier!!  I guess mainly because this has been a “lifestyle” for me for a whole additional year for me, so it’s really not a big deal.  Eating clean and eating six times a day, is just how I eat!  It’s been almost six weeks since my last cheat meal, but all I really want is a vodka soda with lime and maybe a cupcake.  Hilarious, right?  This time since I’m doing so many shows back to back, I’ve been a lot more focused on how I feel—I know now to expect low energy on my low carb days, and have structured my rest day so that it falls on a low carb day, and know to REST!!!  My energy levels so far have been pretty on point, up until this week—we upped my fasted morning cardio to 45 minutes (way more than last year! Lol!) and my low carb days, I’m only doing 25g of carbs.  A ½ cup of oats in the morning with breakfast, and that’s it for 24 hours!  On Tuesdays and Thursdays at least.  Needless to say, I’ve learned that low carb day + leg day is a shitty combo, and I won’t make that mistake again!  Also now that I’m working from home 100% of the time, it’s been a lot easier to get my cardio and training in than last time.  That’s such a blessing—Prep is hard regardless, but it would be so much harder with a demanding job and crazy schedule!!  Shane has been amazing as always, encouraging me and supporting me in this journey.  I’m so lucky to have him by my side!!  I’ve got such an incredible support system of friends and family surrounding me, that I really just want to make everyone proud and enjoy each day as much as I can.  As I write this, I’m making a mental note to focus more on this journey as an individual one, instead of constantly comparing it to last year.

Date night--he gets wings, and I get celery!
Date night–he gets wings, and I get celery!

Outside of just pushing myself in my weight training, I’ve also taken up my cardio a notch from last year, incorporating more sprints, running, and track workouts to help lean out my legs.  It’s working!  We’ve also added a topical fat burner called Vasoburn (like IcyHot without the icy) which is also really helping.  That said, though, I’ve only lost 3 pounds since I started this Prep almost 8 weeks ago!  WTF.  Again, the scale is just a number— progress pics tell so much more.  You can see in these two pictures how much difference a year has made.  I’m still up about 25 pounds from stage weight last year, so we’ll see how the next 7 weeks go!  In terms of muscle mass and added size ALONE, we know I’ve made significant changes to my physique this past year.  I’m back to training with my Coach and posing once a week, which helps me stay focused and structured with my routine.  Cardio, Eat, Work, Eat, Train, More Cardio, Eat, Sleep, Repeat.

I’ve also realized that I feel more confident in this process and myself and what I can push myself to do than I did last time.  Today at least.  It’s very easy to look on Instagram at other competitors getting ready for national level shows, or their progress pictures, etc., and become really discouraged.  I try to just remind myself to compare me to me.  That’s all I can do!  When you give your best, and work hard, and do that day in and day out, the results will come.

I wouldn't be @Lipglossandlifting without some cute lipgloss on my way to the gym, right?
I wouldn’t be @Lipglossandlifting without some cute lipgloss on my way to the gym, right?

We booked another photo shoot for two weeks before the first show, which also happens to be my 31st birthday weekend, and this time it’s with a different photographer which will be fun.   My custom suit from Tamee Marie and custom bedazzled, BEAUTIFUL shoes from the Shoe Fairy are coming soon, so the excitement is building!!

On another super exciting note, NICOLE WILKINS (a.k.a. my Figure competitor HERO/IDOL) will be here in Dallas hosting one of her Fitness Phat Camp Bootcamps March 18th – 20th and I can’t WAIT to go!!!  It will be so fun to learn from her, gain new insights into fitness and nutrition, and meet new Fit Friends!

 

Stay tuned for more frequent updates!

Till next time,

-Mere

It’s Different This Time.

I cannot believe I’m already 11 weeks out!  This Prep is flying by!!  How is it already almost FEBRUARY?!?   I’ve been busy training with my coach once a week, and have started going to posing on Saturday.  So far so great!  I’m slowly leaning out, and although the scale’s not changing, my appearance definitely is.  It’s so exciting to start to see subtle changes in your physique—such a big motivator!  I forgot how great it is to see muscles!!! And I’m so glad to see my abs back!! 🙂

My diet hasn’t really changed from off season, other than doing more carb cycling with meals 2 and 4, and carbs with dinner on Sunday.  Oh and no more cheat meals, duh.  Whomp whomp.   Cardio is slowly increasing, but I’m still doing only 30 minutes after training 5 days a week, and then an hour on Sunday.  Not bad!  Fasted cardio will likely start in another week or two.  This isn’t my first rodeo, so I am ready to PUSH!

This face makes muscles grow!
This face makes muscles grow!

I gotta say though—the first few weeks of this Prep weren’t as golden.  I was still excited, but just not as naïve this time going into it at all.  I definitely needed to get out of my own head.  We all know we are our own worst critic.  As a competitor, it’s so easy to compare yourself to things you see on social media, or other pictures that you’ve taken where you were so much leaner.  It can be so discouraging!  This time, I feel like I’ve been much harder on myself because I want to do well and I’ve put so much pressure on myself in offseason to GROW.  I’ve had to remind myself that this process comes slowly, and that I need to TRUST THE PROCESS.  The scale is not always indicative of the changes going on in your body.  Being around my competitor friends and teammates the last couple of weekends definitely helped though because you can learn from their experiences and be encouraged by their journeys.  No successful competitor does this alone!!!  You have to have a support system.  I’m so fortunate to have so many amazing, encouraging, supportive people around me, not just competitors, but friends and family as well.

Just over 9 weeks out here.
Just over 9 weeks out here.

It finally started feeling REAL when I got my suit ordered, and compared progress pictures from 15 weeks out to 11 and 12 weeks out.  The process WORKS!  Stick to the plan, and the plan will work.  My suit is going to be AMAZING!!!!!  The incredible Tamee Marie designed my suit last year and I couldn’t imagine trusting anyone else to do a better job, so she will be designing this year’s as well.  I went with a gunmetal / dark shimmery gray material, and the stone colors will likely be different shades of pewter and silver, but she hasn’t finalized those yet.

Welcome back abs!!!
Welcome back abs!!!

In other news, I’ve done some serious research on getting certified as a Personal Trainer through NASM.  I love being able to share my knowledge and experiences with others to help them on their fitness journeys.  Being certified would give me the credibility to be able to do that on a larger scale.  Ideally I will take the exam later this summer/ early fall, and start doing online training and nutrition/ lifestyle coaching programs.  I have a heart for women and ladies who are “scared of the gym” and have no idea where to start with eating clean, because I was one of those girls just a short time ago.  I love learning about fitness and nutrition, and feel like getting certified will just further my knowledge.  For now I’m focusing on my training and getting ready to rock that stage in just a few weeks!

At the end of the day, this is me competing against myself, to be a better version of myself inside and out.  I fell in love with Bodybuilding because at it’s core, it is all about building yourself from the outside in.  Stronger physically, stronger emotionally, stronger mentally.  Some of my worst days have given me some of my best workouts.  Isn’t that cool?  I read a quote not too long ago that was something to the effect of” you will have people come and go, good days and bad days, but the iron is consistent, 200 pounds is 200 pounds.”  That’s powerful.

I’m just so, so excited to see this journey unfold, and am even more excited to share it with all of you.  Keep grinding!

Till next time,

-Mere